Today's Subhashita.

ऐश्वर्यात्सह् संबन्धं न कुर्याच्च कदाचन |

गते च गौरवं नास्ति आगते च धनक्षयः  ||

अर्थ -     कभी भी अपने से ऐश्वर्यवान और धनी कुल में विवाह संबन्ध नहीं करना चाहिये क्योंकि यदि वहां वर या कन्या विवाही जायेगी तो उसे और उसके परिवार को  आदर और प्रसंशा प्राप्त नहीं होती है  और यदि किसी अपने से अधिक धनवान कुल की कन्या से विवाह सम्बन्ध किया जाय तो उसकी  खर्चीली आदतों के कारण उसे  निभाने मे परिवार की धन हानि हो जाती है |
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Aishvaryaasaha sambandham na kuryaacch kadaachana.

gate cha gauravam naasti aagate cha dhanakshyah 

Aishvaryaasah = aishvaryaat +saha.      Aishvarya =   with wealth    Saha = with,   Aishvaryaatsaha = with wealthy persons.      Sambandham =    relationship ( marriage)    .Na = not.    Kuryaaccha = Kuryat +cha.
Kuryaad = do      Cha = and.    kadaachana = never .    Gate = gone (getting married in a rich family)    Gaurava=admiration,dignity.  Naasti = na +asti.    Asti = is.       Aagate = arrived,  came (coming from a rich family )  dhanakshyah = loss of wealth.

i.e.      One should never establish marital relations with a family more rich and prosperous than his family, because if a daughter is given in marriage  or a son is wed in such a family , they and their family will not get any respect and admiration.  On the other hand if a daughter in law is from a very rich family,she will also be a misfit in the family and  may result in loss of wealth of the family due to her lavish lifestyle and spending habits.